Stick With the Issue at Hand

When a conflict arises, it's best to stick with the issue at hand.

I had a family member who recently made an offensive comment: "The only person who appreciates your sense of humor is you!"

Reality check:

• Her statement is untrue.
• This person has a long history of making abrasive comments—though she is doing much better than in her earlier years.

I responded immediately: "That was offensive."

I didn't say anything about past issues.

She recognized her error and apologized.

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